Virtue and civility will never cross paths and they will never exist on the same plane. Those who aim to be virtuous will never tolerate diversity, since virtue only aims to be virtuous.
Those who wish to be civil, cannot access virtue, since civility beseeches virtue. To be civil would allow people lacking the drive for virtue to intermingle.
You can either strive for virtue or civility. If you attempt to capture both, you will lose everything.
I hope to be civil.
Since I am void of virtue.